This Is one question which may have crossed each of our minds
at some point of time in life.
If you just sit and think what are the things that give you
happiness you will have bag full of choices and answer for this, but the real
question though we aspire to achieve so much in life and some may even achieve it but do you realize
does this all genuinely makes your life happy?..Just sit back think for a minute
and somewhere deep down within your heart you will get your answer…
The time since we have been kids and going to school we
always dream to achieve certain goals at every stage in life and finally see
ourselves at a place where we are highly educated or earning good amount of
money for the rest of our lives, some may succeed some may not… some may end up
doing altogether a different thing that they dreamt since their childhood.. all
the years down we give our hundred percent ,all the hard work, all our time and
energy for whatever it takes to become a
successful person after all, but how many of us are truly happy about the way
their life is moving at present …..
I am no one to generalize things but in this small life of mine whatever I
have experienced or noticed we human beings in this world of competition just
want to rise high, push ourselves to the fullest, and do whatever it takes to
be a winner at the end, and I guess that’s happiness for some., There is nothing
wrong about it though , and for some they fail, get weaken , it is sometimes
the situation or sometimes it’s the destiny that change our plans and drop us
to a place where god wants us to be and so, We just accept this and keep
struggling day and night, work, and earn money we try and keep ourselves busy 24/ 7 just to get the best
in life and fulfill our needs with each passing day, but at some point of time
when you are alone, sitting on a couch or lying on your bed having a peaceful
time relaxing after a busy day at work have you ever asked yourself am I really happy doing the
things that I keep doing all through the day …
for me it’s a no. our true happiness is somewhere lost around our big
dreams and goals… achieving them do give us happiness and satisfaction but
these kind of happiness are temporary or short lived. True happiness lies in little things in life...be
it singing aloud, or playing the strings of your guitar, dancing like crazy
irrespective of what your neighbors will think, as far as nobody is giving you
marks for it..lolz doing all those little things which makes you happy.
Just helping your mom in the kitchen where you get time to
talk with her, share laughs and the same time learn and some where this gives
us both a beyond measure happiness.. .playing with small kids in the
neighborhood and the feeling to be one of them makes you cherish the best times
of your childhood is happiness ,spending time with our elders or grandparents
listening to their stories making them smile along with you is somehow a true
happiness that is felt within the heart.
Or it can also be just relaxing at the beach or observing the beauty of nature
makes you recall all the good times in life is what happiness all about so also
you can try making tea for the whole family so that at least for a little while
they come together, sit ,enjoy and mutually yell at you for making an awful tea…
despite the fact they will appreciate your efforts and drink it to make you
happy…thus by all this I am just trying to explain that though we all are busy
doing something or the other, however take out time to do little things in life
which at least not others but makes your family, loved ones happy and
ultimately makes you happy from all your heart. And I guess this sort of happiness
your work won’t give you…just try it out.
