A PERFECT.....PARTNER??!!

OK, so this is the term that i have been hearing a lot lately, as many of my cousins in the family and friends have crossed their teenage,done with their graduation and right now working....so whats next to do in life?

here you go now its the time to find a perfect life partner get married and settle down ahead in life. In any middle class family they have this tendency or you can say follow the trend as soon as daughter or son starts working with in year a two make sure to find a partner for them respectively as soon as possible, some times i feel even marriages have become a rat race, in that case specially when its a daughter.

 at times i casually chat with my female cousins or friends i have came across something that sounds very funny and imaginative called "i need a perfect partner" or "somebody like me".... i mean that is something so unrealistic,oh i maybe wrong or i may sound judgmental.

but wait a sec and think, on the one side we girls live in our  own created wonderland of perfect partner, on the other hand parents are no less these days about finding the perfect partner for their children, i agree they are parents and they expect the best for their child and their future but even they keep rejecting boys on whatsoever different criteria s they have in their head, be it income, looks,family and some are just rejected on baseless grounds. ..my question here is why we as a girl and as parents keep scrutinizing these boys their career their nature family etc..? i need to tell them is your girl that perfect ? 

at the same time these days i feel we girls don't know exactly what are we looking in a partner....they just want an extremely rich boy earning really well, high status, and good looks but if  we girls ardently look at our self do we really deserve such  boy .....? i feel we have so much moved to a materialistic world that somewhere the basic qualities we forget i.e love we don't need a perfect partner we need a love which is true, he as a person should be the one that makes you feel good about yourself who will be your best friend, respect your family, understand and most importantly care and love you for what you are and treat you  as his princess forever.
 yet love is the last necessity in the so called 'perfect partner wish list' and this brings me to a surprise always!